Guys, I’ve been blogging for over 10 years now. I started in the early days with a blog I called ‘Brain Gum, spiritual thoughts to chew on.’ I miss that one. Then after some church leadership experiences, Lead Right was born. This blog had a few posts about scripture and faith, but it largely focused on healthy leadership.
As my blog needs to adequately reflect my personal season of life, it is now transitioning back to a more ‘devotional-type’ of blog.
My wife, Cailey, and I co-pastor a Missional Community in Yakima, WA. This endeavor has been completely new and invigorating for us. It’s an approach to living and spreading the Gospel, while making disciples, that we’ve never experienced before.
I’m keeping all prior posts on this blog. But as a transitional post, here are a few of the more popular leadership writings I’ve shared.
‘Godly’ Doesn’t Always Equate to a Good Leader // Why Churches Should Be In The Habit Of Spilling The Beans // Leadership Burnout: 4 Signs To Watch For // 3 Things To Always And Never Do In Leadership // 6 ‘Easy’ Ways To Begin Leading Your Home Spiritually // 4 Ways To Embrace Failure // The One Commandment Most Church Leaders Break Often // 4 Food Groups of Leadership // Church Health – an Oxymoron?
And for those of you who are looking forward to future reflections on Scripture and living out our faith, here are a few past posts that readers have liked.
4 Keys to a Successful Devotional Time // 3 Things to Avoid When God Begins to Speak // Why You’re Being Attacked // 3 Ways To Find Real Joy // How To Listen When God Begins To Speak // God Is Working On Your Behalf This Very Moment
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I have a love/hate relationship with watching our kids grow up!
In our 26+ years of marriage, our family has moved over 20 times. And 5 of those have been large moves across the country.
One word. ‘Adventure.’
What I’ve discovered as Cailey and I are quickly becoming empty nesters is that our kids are taking on the rhythm of life they were raised in.
Take exhibit A (image to the right). This is the new world clock on my phone. As of this week, this now represents the 3 time zones our immediate family live in.
Most of our moves, and all 5 of the big ones, were related to doing ministry. And it wasn’t ever as simple as going where employment was. There were always multiple options for us to choose from. I guess we’ve just firmly believed in listening to God carefully and stepping in faith in whichever direction He sends us. We’ve modeled this lifestyle to our kids, so it should not surprise me that we now have a 21 y/o son living in Colorado and a 23 y/o son serving the next 3 years in Guam with the U.S. Navy. Our other two kids currently live at home, but who knows where they will end up in the next year or two?
All that said, here are a few lessons I’m learning about watching our kids leave our nest and become highly independent adults.
- Our direction and influence in their lives must look different than before. It also needs to be OFFERED, not GIVEN.
- Their life choices are THEIR life choices. Their career, family, lifestyle, and overall worldview isn’t going to look just like mine. Those are not wrong or right. They are simply going to be different…unique to the person they are becoming.
- It is fun watching them discover ADULTING along the way. But this is a spectator sport. We must not interfere in game play when we’re on the bench. And guess what? Our kids will determine if and when we come off the sidelines, not us.
- Lastly, I love the fact that our kids still TALK to us! Now, I’m not so naive to claim that they tell us everything and they know all there is to know about Mom and Dad. But we still share our ambitions, worries, victories, and basic joys with each other. Cailey and I call that a win for our family.
Our family is far from perfect. We’ve even been told we’re entertaining at times (that’s not always a compliment). But our kids genuinely love each other, and deep down they know that their parents love them.
Here’s to family, life transition, and simply going with the flow!
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Here’s a taste of what I’ve been recently writing about:
3 Things Every Church Leader Should Produce
Do You ‘Know’ You’re Singing Out Loud
3 Ways to Continue Leading When Life Gets Difficult
Below are my most popular posts on leadership. I’m sharing these with you for one key reason. I am looking to making a few small adjustments with my approach to my blog and I really need your input. Take a look.
1) Manage your life, or your life will manage you
2) Your worship style is not working
3) We’re going to skin our knee on ministry work
4) 5 tips to having a good day of rest
5) Taking the Church’s Biblical pulse
Now tell me…which of these post did you like the most and why?
What aspects of the content did you find most helpful, and what material do I need to change or completely get rid of? Are there leadership topics/issues that I am missing?
I’d love your input. Either comment below or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org