“Leadership is a marathon, NOT a sprint.”
You’ve heard this before. Church leadership requires a healthy pace. You and I; we’re not Superman. We’re definitely not God. So we need to stop living our lives like we are.
As leaders in the Church, you and I have a huge responsibility. This is all the more reason we must be attentive to our spiritual, physical, and emotional health regularly.
Here are 4 signs to beware of:
Short temper | Anyone ever accused you of being snappy? Maybe your spouse or a co-worker? And when they address it doesn’t it make us even SNAPPIER? When we have been going full throttle for too long, anything (anyone) that appears to be a speed bump in our way ends up really irritating us. Watch out for this.
Fatigue | Staying up too late and getting up too early. Have you ever said to yourself, “People survive on 3-4 hours of sleep a night all the time. I just need to push through this busy season.” Two thoughts here. 1. That is simply justifying an unhealthy lifestyle. 2. If you’re in church leadership, guess what? It’s always a busy season!
Told by others | This one usually stings a bit. And the reason is usually because the person holding us accountable is someone we have a close relationship with. A spouse, close mentor, or good friend. That’s why it stings…because you and I know they’re right! Here are a few things I’ve personally been told: “Hey man, what’s up? You’ve been a bit distant lately.” “You have not checked in on me and how my family has been doing in quite a while. I miss that.” Are you O.K? You haven’t been yourself lately.”
Isolation | This one is huge! Beware when you reach the point of dreading being around anyone. You stop going to Small Group with your spouse during the week. You tend to be the last one in at staff meetings and the first one to leave. Your list of friends you can confide in has diminished to zero.
If you can relate to any of these today, please….talk to someone. Modify your schedule. Take a true Sabbath rest. Ask your spouse to pray for/with you.
If this isn’t you but you know someone who is in this place, do them a favor. Offer some loving accountability. Share this post with them. Offer to pray over them.
Whatever you do, don’t ignore your gut on this. Leave a comment below.